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Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Why you shouldn't be a nag in your relationship


    Ok, I got this today and am sharing with beautiful people like you. Bear in mind, I am not perfect too.....I learn from all these stories as well.
    What is this life. .....
    Just Read along.......
    When I was a kid, my Mum liked to make food for dinner every now & then. I remember one night in particular when she made dinner after a long, hard day at work.
    On that evening so long ago, my Mum placed a plate of stew and extremely burnt yam in front of my dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed! Yet, all my dad did was reach for his yam, smiled at my Mum and asked me how my day was at school. I don't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember hearing my Mum apologise to my dad for burning the yam.

Tuesday, February 28, 2012

Just for Laughs!!!

Here is a letter from a desperate Job seeker :D
    No 55. Igitiwopayin st, Off Edaolaropin lane Ifetedo,Miosetofe Nigeria
    Τ̲̅ђε̲ G.manager.Twale...  ‎ ( :D )  / \ ' ‎. BABA NIYEN
    Dear Sir,
   
    APPLICATION FOR EMPLOYMENT
   
    I refer to the recent death of the Technical Manager at your company and hereby apply for the replacement of the dead manager :(
    It's sad but as the elders will say... "if one person's life did not spoil, another person's life cannot repair" #:-s
    Each time I apply for employment, I get a reply that there is no vacancy but in this case ,I have caught you red handed and you have no excuse because I even attended the funeral :| to be sure that he is truly dead before applying. /:)
    Attached is d poster of his obituary... Original not photocopy ooo :|
    Yours,
    Sule O. Igitakoko
    Job seeker

What Sharing truly means in a relationship!!!

I got this today and i thought i should share.
    THE POOR MAN AND HIS WIFE►►►
    A very poor man lived with his wife. One day, his wife, who had a very long hair asked him to buy her a comb for her hair to grow well and to be well-groomed. The man felt very sorry and said no. He explained that he did not even have enough money to fix the strap of his watch he had just broken. She did not insist on her request.
    The man went to work and passed ...by a watch shop, sold his damaged watch at a low price and went to buy a comb for his wife. He came home in the evening with the comb in his hand ready to give to her wife. He was surprised when he saw his wife with a very short hair cut.
    She had sold her hairand was holding a new watchband. Tears flowed simultaneously from their eyes, not for the futility of their actions, but for the reciprocity of their love.
    MORAL: To love is nothing, to be loved is something but to love and to be loved by the one you love, that is EVERYTHING. Never take love for granted. Reciprocate good gestures and cherish your partner at all times. .
    Another story about a Couple......... .
    A man who has no job got married to a banker, despite his fears & advices that it's not good to marry without a job. .
    Every month the girl will give the guy her full salary N135k after removing her N15k tithe. The guy will give the wife N20k for personal up keep & †?? guy determines what happens to thremaining money, this thing happened for 3 good years. There was happiness in the family & the lady never refused to do her primary home duty for that 3years despite wrong advice from friends:"you can't pay the bills & still be doing all the work". .
    There was a particular month d guy used about N70k to travel from state to state for different interviews. The man finally got a job with a gud firm in Port-Harcourt his salary was N600k monthly for a start. He bought his first car (a brand new) for N4.5m, he gave d wife d car key. So he took public transport to work for about 2years b4 he bought the second car for N6 million. After he bought d second car he took d keys of the 1st car & gave d wife the key of the second car. They were very very happy.They finally moved into their personal house after some few years. .
    One day, d wife was looking 4 some documents she now saw a file codedly hidden, when she opened d file she saw her wedding picture when she was very slim in d first page of d file. She finally saw dat d document to d purchase of d land & every other things in d house contains her name only. At d last page was d guy's wedding picture nd a note written by d husband, '' MY WIFE IS ALL I HAVE GOT,NOT EVEN THIS HOUSE WORTH N24M AT THE TIME I BUILT IT''. .
    This couple got married in 1998. Last Sunday was their wedding anniversary with two children a boy & a girl. True LOVE still exists up till this day. Are you sure, the love you have for Him/Her can be compared to this one you just read. No matter what, remember you choose each other so share...it doesn't matter who puts food on the table. There is Love in sharing! Peace!!! DONT 4GET TO SHARE !!!!!! .
    ************************************************************************************************************** After reading this.... i thought to myself, would it work out for everyone like it did in the story? My answer is NO!!!!..... Be wise in sharing, some men/ women have first class degrees in being selfish.....They take when you share and when the light shines @ the end of the tunnel for them you will be in the dark of what he/she has. When you share be sure to know what the capabilities of your partner is and be sure he/she isn't just sitting on his/her ass waiting till ur salary comes. Only one income is not enough for an household to share. It's very good to share but be wise#

Saturday, February 11, 2012

Whitney Houston dead @ 48

LOS ANGELES, Calif. - Whitney Houston, who ruled as pop music's queen until her majestic voice and regal image were ravaged by drug use, erratic behaviour and a tumultuous marriage to singer Bobby Brown, has died. She was 48. Legendary pop singer Whitney Houston died at a Beverly Hills, California, hotel at age 48, officials said Saturday night. The entertainer was pronounced dead at 3:55 p.m. (6:55 p.m. ET) at the Beverly Hilton Hotel despite resuscitation efforts, a police spokesman said Beverly Hills Police Lt. Mark Rosen said there were "no obvious signs of criminal intent" and that the cause of her death is being investigated. Houston died on the eve of the 54th annual Grammy Awards in Los Angeles. According to her official website, Houston, who struggled with addiction problems over the years, sold more than 170 million albums, singles and videos over her career. Houston was set to appear in this year's "Sparkle," a remake of the 1976 hit, which was loosely based on the story of The Supremes. It was her first movie role since 1996's "The Preacher's Wife." News of her death elicited a flood of reaction on social media, from fans and fellow celebrities alike. Houston's publicist, Kristen Foster, said Saturday that the singer had died, but the cause and the location of her death were unknown. News of Houston's death came on the eve of music's biggest night — the Grammy Awards. It's a showcase where she once reigned, and her death was sure to case a heavy pall on Sunday's ceremony. Houston's longtime mentor Clive Davis was to hold his annual concert and dinner Saturday; it was unclear if it was going to go forward. At her peak, Houston the golden girl of the music industry. From the middle 1980s to the late 1990s, she was one of the world's bestselling artists. She wowed audiences with effortless, powerful, and peerless vocals that were rooted in the black church but made palatable to the masses with a pop sheen. Her success carried her beyond music to movies, where she starred in hits like "The Bodyguard" and "Waiting to Exhale." She had the he perfect voice, and the perfect image: a gorgeous singer who had sex appeal but was never overtly sexual, who maintained perfect poise. She influenced a generation of younger singers, from Christina Aguilera to Mariah Carey, who when she first came out sounded so much like Houston that many thought it was Houston. But by the end of her career, Houston became a stunning cautionary tale of the toll of drug use. Her album sales plummeted and the hits stopped coming; her once serene image was shattered by a wild demeanour and bizarre public appearances. She confessed to abusing cocaine, marijuana and pills, and her once pristine voice became raspy and hoarse, unable to hit the high notes as she had during her prime. "The biggest devil is me. I'm either my best friend or my worst enemy," Houston told ABC's Diane Sawyer in an infamous 2002 interview with then-husband Brown by her side. It was a tragic fall for a superstar who was one of the top-selling artists in pop music history, with more than 55 million records sold in the United States alone. May she rest in peace. So sad!

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Valentine's day is around the corner

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    For the guys!!! Try your best to impress that girl you have been chatting up. Not saying she will fall for you because of the gift but am sure she would appreciate the thoughtfulness. Don't be the guy that disappears a few days to Valentine and resurfaces after with a "cock and bull" story. Ladies are meant to be appreciated. Am not trying to sound like a Feminist.... just my point of view. Ladies, be thoughtful...don't just be a receiver....show how much you care with gifts on that day. .
    Well, I started dating my husband on valentine's day back in 2003. Not because of the gift eventhough i was excited about it. The day just provided a lovely atmosphere to start a relationship. It did work out at the end. We dated for 7 years and got married in the 7th year. .
    So this Valentine's day be thoughtful, you never know what good awaits you. Here are some Gift Ideas: .
    For Ladies - A voucher to the spa - Lingeries ( Bra, pants, thongs etc) - Cake - Chocolate - Roses - Night wear, house coat, bath robe - Jewelry - Perfume - Box of chocolate - A date @ a nice restaurant .
    If you are rich enough - Ipad - Cell phone - Camera .
    For Men - Cologne - Boxers - Nice Shirts - Nice polo shirts - PJ - Wrist watch - Sandals .
    Feel free to add to the list. .
    Whatever you give, enjoy the day and show that special person how much you love them. .
    Cheers.

Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Bursted!!! Nigerian perverted nurse caught sexually abusing his patients

A Nigerian nursing assistant based in the United States, Folajuwani Ajani has been arrested for fondling a patient and also videotaping it. Ajayi appeared at an indianapolis court on Tuesday where he pleaded not guilty to the charges. According to charges brought against Ajayi, while working at Wishard Hospital, he allegely removed the clothing of an unconscious female patient and fondled her genital area. This, he also videotaped. But what gave him away was that he mistakenly videotaped his ID card and his title. Naijapals gathered that upon arrest, police said his phone had 400,000 pictures and 17 videos.Prosecutors says they are looking for means to get the other women on his phone and interview them on whether or not they have also been abused by the assitant nurse. Ajayi’s case has once again raised the issue of medical personnel who used their position to violate female patients by sexually abusing them. But seriously, how bad can it get.... 400,000 videos of women who were not aware of the act. This guy will definitely sexually abuse dead people in the morgue. Sad he traded his perversion for his career and some jail time. Sick dude!!!

Friday, February 3, 2012

lt's all about Money!!! Who is to be blamed?

Here is the scenario .
    There is a guy named Dave Cole, born into wealth and a very good spender. A spoilt brat i would call him; he spends the money without having to work for it. He has all the good things of life at the tip of his fingers and a notorious womaniser. He is the C.E.O of his father's million dollar company but his workers have never seen him at work. He spends alot on his girls, from buying them cars to all expense paid trip to a vacation destination to buying them all the designer brands you can name. .
    Time flies by and now Dave is 40. His Parents, want him to start a family. He thinks about it but he is not sure which of his various ladies he should settle down with. If he had organised a contest to find a wife, he would get alot of contestant (Regardless of the shameful reason for the contest). He meets a new lady by the name Tonia through one of his friends and within a twinkle of an eye (2 weeks into meeting her) he showers her with money, gifts, car, vacation and then he proposes to her (Be my wife). A little background on Tonia, she is 28 years old from a middle class family. A graduate and a Customer Service reps at one of the banks. To her friends, she hit a pot of gold when she met Dave. when her friends heard about the proposal they went GREEN with envy (in a good way) because half of them were desperately looking for marriage. .
    Tonia started preparing for their marriage and one month after meeting Dave, they had the "Talk of the town" wedding. The wedding was attended by the "creme-de-la-creme" of the society. The bill for the wedding was in millions. I need not tell you how green Tonia's friends were but you sure can imagine how everyone hoped and prayed for the same wedding for themselves. Dave and Tonia Cole's new home is in a highbrow estate "for the rich", it is a mansion with stewards, maids, chauffeurs...(that was just the life). She didn't go back to her customer service job....just not worth it! She got some money from him and started a high class spa/ make-over place. All the society ladies flooded the place regardless of the exhorbitant charges. Her spa was the place to be. .
    Dave hasn't changed, he was back on the streets again womanising. He would even visit his wives spa and on his way out would find a lady to take to a hotel for a quickie. These ladies are aware he is married but who cares....they need the prestige that comes with dating him. Here comes the hottest of them all, she is a beauty queen by the name Dammy. All the men wanted to date her, Dave was happier than he was on his weding day when Dammy agreed to be his mistress. There relationship became the gossip of every tabloid. It became an open secret. Tonia hears about it and confronts Dave. At this time, she is 5 months pregnant. Dave did not accept nor deny the allegations but that isn't stopping him from spending time with Dammy. Dave continues to provide for Tonia but emotionally there is no connection. .
    Dammy loves the attention the open secret brings to her and she loves the fact that she thinks she is in love with Dave. Yea..Yea...in love with all Dave has to offer. Dave bought her a house, a new SUV, various first-class trips to destinations of choice and ofcourse have her bank account credited every week. Dave still has other ladies he calls in for a quickee but Dammy is the main mistress. .
    Tonia's friends start to call to find out if she has been reading the magazines. Tonia covers up and tells whoever cares to listen that Dave is been blackmailed. Tonia is living a loveless life and she goes through a daily humilation at her spa when ladies start to gossip about her openly. She beacame the shadow of herself and she stopped going to her spa. A beautiful afternoon, she was in labour....she called Dave. Dave gave a good hiss and asked her to tell the chaffeur to take her to the hospital. She puts to bed to a bouncing baby girl, with her mum by her side. Meanwhile, Dave and Dammy flew to Dubai that night to have a good vacation. Tonia is sad....she couldn't even reach her husband on the phone to tell him she had put to bed. .
    Dave was incommunicado so there was no ceremony for the new born. Dave gets back in 2 weeks....pops into baby's room and leaves a cheques for Tonia to use for her expenses. Now, its obvious Tonia is married to the money. She is going through so much hurts inside and the only thing that makes her smile is her Cheques. She opens up to one of her friends Toyo, Toyo asked her to steal Dammy's number from Dave's phone. Tonia and Toyo calls Dammy (Dave's mistress) cursing and threatening.... Dammy tells Tonia she would soon send her out of the house so she can move in. Dammy is having a good laugh, she calls Dave and tells Dave all that happened. Dave went home and gave Tonia the beating of her life....she lost a tooth. Tonia is miserable, She knows it's time to sort a divorce but she couldn't because she wouldn't be able to maintain her new life-style (one she acquired by becoming Mrs. Cole). Her Spa wasn't bringing in as much money because she was no longer @ d top (The ladies were there for social climbing). Now she has a daughter, it is a lot of money to raise a child. She thought of getting another man but she has a child and it would be a case of luck to find a man rich enough to cater for her needs, single enough to help her start her life over and opened enough to accept her with her child. She is still in the mansion getting the cheques but no companionship. She has had several visits to the hospital because she developed a high blood pressure at age 31. Dave.
    still sleeps with Dammy and Dammy is having a good life. She runs a beauty pageant and she has all the big sponsors because she sleeps with them. Her heart belongs to no one. She loves the life she is living and has alot of money to show for it. Although nobody knows how many times she has been treated for STDs but rumour has it that she is a regular @ a popular doctor's office for treatment. STD or no STD, a lot of men are still on the queue for her. Dave is still a spoilt brat with little or no attachment to his daughter or "wife". He is okay with having them in the house atleast that gives his parent the false hope of him being a family man. Still as randy as ever and has no regrets for it. Who is to be blamed for this unfortunate scenario? Is it Dave, Dave's parents, Tonia, Tonia's parents or Dammy?