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Tuesday, February 28, 2012

What Sharing truly means in a relationship!!!

I got this today and i thought i should share.
    THE POOR MAN AND HIS WIFE►►►
    A very poor man lived with his wife. One day, his wife, who had a very long hair asked him to buy her a comb for her hair to grow well and to be well-groomed. The man felt very sorry and said no. He explained that he did not even have enough money to fix the strap of his watch he had just broken. She did not insist on her request.
    The man went to work and passed ...by a watch shop, sold his damaged watch at a low price and went to buy a comb for his wife. He came home in the evening with the comb in his hand ready to give to her wife. He was surprised when he saw his wife with a very short hair cut.
    She had sold her hairand was holding a new watchband. Tears flowed simultaneously from their eyes, not for the futility of their actions, but for the reciprocity of their love.
    MORAL: To love is nothing, to be loved is something but to love and to be loved by the one you love, that is EVERYTHING. Never take love for granted. Reciprocate good gestures and cherish your partner at all times. .
    Another story about a Couple......... .
    A man who has no job got married to a banker, despite his fears & advices that it's not good to marry without a job. .
    Every month the girl will give the guy her full salary N135k after removing her N15k tithe. The guy will give the wife N20k for personal up keep & †?? guy determines what happens to thremaining money, this thing happened for 3 good years. There was happiness in the family & the lady never refused to do her primary home duty for that 3years despite wrong advice from friends:"you can't pay the bills & still be doing all the work". .
    There was a particular month d guy used about N70k to travel from state to state for different interviews. The man finally got a job with a gud firm in Port-Harcourt his salary was N600k monthly for a start. He bought his first car (a brand new) for N4.5m, he gave d wife d car key. So he took public transport to work for about 2years b4 he bought the second car for N6 million. After he bought d second car he took d keys of the 1st car & gave d wife the key of the second car. They were very very happy.They finally moved into their personal house after some few years. .
    One day, d wife was looking 4 some documents she now saw a file codedly hidden, when she opened d file she saw her wedding picture when she was very slim in d first page of d file. She finally saw dat d document to d purchase of d land & every other things in d house contains her name only. At d last page was d guy's wedding picture nd a note written by d husband, '' MY WIFE IS ALL I HAVE GOT,NOT EVEN THIS HOUSE WORTH N24M AT THE TIME I BUILT IT''. .
    This couple got married in 1998. Last Sunday was their wedding anniversary with two children a boy & a girl. True LOVE still exists up till this day. Are you sure, the love you have for Him/Her can be compared to this one you just read. No matter what, remember you choose each other so share...it doesn't matter who puts food on the table. There is Love in sharing! Peace!!! DONT 4GET TO SHARE !!!!!! .
    ************************************************************************************************************** After reading this.... i thought to myself, would it work out for everyone like it did in the story? My answer is NO!!!!..... Be wise in sharing, some men/ women have first class degrees in being selfish.....They take when you share and when the light shines @ the end of the tunnel for them you will be in the dark of what he/she has. When you share be sure to know what the capabilities of your partner is and be sure he/she isn't just sitting on his/her ass waiting till ur salary comes. Only one income is not enough for an household to share. It's very good to share but be wise#

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