A chilling letter from the grave from an abused woman

Hi readers, this is a true life story. So sad and chilling.............

[31/10/76 - 27/02/12] 

My mum is crying. I can see  her from here. She has aged since the last time I saw her.

Why does she look so old and why is she so thin? Can someone console her? Can someone make her stop  crying?

I try to get up but I can’t. I try to reach for her, but I’m stuck where  I am. It is very dark in here, and very cold, so very cold. 

What am I doing here?   Where is everybody?   Where are my children?  I begin to panic, to struggle;  I want to get out of this dark room. 


I can hear Uzo calling. She’s calling my name. Then, I see mum again. And I hear Uzo again. I don’t see my children. Where are my children? I can’t see beyond the walls of this dark and cold room.
 
Uzo calls again. 

She sounds desperate to rouse me from my sleep. I am struggling  to wake but I can’t. I open my eyes and they shut of their own accord. 
I am powerless to keep them from shutting. And I find as soon as I stop struggling,  my sleep becomes sweet repose. Suddenly I don’t want to wake from it just yet. It is peaceful.
I see mum again, and I see Uzo. Uzo keeps calling. She won’t stop calling. She is crying too, just like mum.

Can someone bring Kamsi and Amanda to me? Can someone bring my babies to me? I need to hug them, Kamsi, especially. Is he crying too and calling out for me? 
Does he understand that I  am gone? Kamsi will miss me. 

He is a special child, you know; Kamsiyochukwu - my son and my first child. 

I prayed and longed for his birth. He was the blessing  from above that would seal Kevin’s love for me and give me some footing in his  home and some acceptance from his family. 

 Before Kamsi, I was a nobody in Kevin’s home. I was born the last of nine children, the baby of the family. I was used to love and affection. I was  everyone’s baby. I grew up knowing that everyone had my back, I grew up knowing  the safety and security of being the baby of the home. You may then understand  my shock when I stepped out of my home and into new territory with the man of my  dreams only to find that I was really not as special as I had been made to  believe. I look back to that day when Kevin took me home to introduce me to my new family. The cold and rude shock of the welcome his brother’s wife gave me  set off an alarm in my head.

Would you take an oath? This would change your mind!

Here is a true life story that happened recently. Read and learn from it.

She was a young and pretty babe with the telecommunications outfit,MTEL years back.That was until it folded up and she went into private business.

Meanwhile,it was while there that Teju Salau met and started dating an Edo born young man simply known as Kingsley.

According to reports,the guy came from one of the Local Governments that borders Ondo State.

The guy had an ambition to travel abroad and after much pressure,the lady helped him in facilitating the trip as well as financing same.

Based on their love and the help he received, the guy was alleged to have suggested that they had a blood covenant that they would never be separated and that they would wait for each other and marry each other.

While the lady agreed,her more circumspect mother was said to have been seriously against the idea but Teju,went ahead and had the blood covenant all the same.

Weeks after they had sworn the oath,the guy was granted visa to go to China.

John 3:16

This is so beautiful! John 3:16 A little boy was selling newspapers on the corner, the people were in and out of the cold. The little boy was so cold that he wasn't trying to sell many papers. He walked up to a policeman and said, "Mister, you wouldn't happen to know where a poor boy could find a warm place to sleep tonight would you? You see, I sleep in a box up around the corner there and down the alley and it's awful cold in there for tonight. Sure would be nice to have a warm place to stay." The policeman looked down at the little boy and said, "You go down the street to that big white house and you knock on the door. When they come out the door you just say John 3:16, and they will let you in." So he did. He walked up the steps and knocked on the door, and a lady answered. He looked up and said, "John 3:16." The lady said, "Come on in, Son." She took him in and she sat him down in a split bottom rocker in front of a great big old fireplace, and she went off. The boy sat there for a while and thought to himself: John 3:16...I don't understand it, but it sure makes a cold boy warm. " He said, "Well, just a little. I haven't eaten in a couple of days, and I guess I could stand a little bit of food," The lady took him in the kitchen and sat him down to a table full of wonderful food. He ate and ate until he couldn't eat any more. Then he thought to himself: John 3:16...Boy, I sure don't understand it but it sure makes a hungry boy full. She took him upstairs to a bathroom to a huge bathtub filled with warm water, and he sat there and soaked for a while. As he soaked, he thought to himself: John 3:16... I sure don't understand it, but it sure makes a dirty boy clean. You know, I've not had a bath, a real bath, in my whole life. The only bath I ever had was when I stood in front of that big old fire hydrant as they flushed it out. The lady came in and got him. She took him to a room, tucked him into a big old feather bed, pulled the covers up around his neck, kissed him goodnight and turned out the lights. As he lay in the darkness and looked out the window at the snow coming down on that cold night, he thought to himself: John 3:16...I don't understand it but it sure makes a tired boy rested.

He is broke, should i marry him?

Tade is a young and a hard working lady with a stable job. She is turning 29 in April and planning to get married in December 2012. She met her husband-to-be (David) a year ago. David doesn't have a job and a very good dreamer (lol). He fantasizes a lot about million-dollar contracts and loves to live a fake life.

He talks big and tries to give a false impression of his "pocket" which unfortunately is not working for him because people think he has more than enough (So people don't offer him jobs). According to Tade, David has only been able to secure one contract worth $10,000 ever since she met him.

To cut the long story short David does not really have a steady source of income and he feels too big to search for a job. Tade and David's love life is fantastic and they really want to move things to the next level. Here is where the gist is, Tade is scared of the future with David because of his financial situation.

Laugh out Loud

Dem say boko haram don poison beans and i buy half bag 4 house.

From d 1 wey i cook, i giv my dog 'Bingo' make e 1st test am, 45mins lata bingo stil dey waka, den i eat.

Afta i eat finish, my gateman run come tel me say bingo don die, i run enta house dey turn gallon of oil 4 belle.

As i come out my gateman dey tell me say d driver wey kill bingo wan come beg me.

Abeg If na u, wetin u go do the gateman? LOL!!!

Abused and Alone!!!

A large number of women are continually abused in their relationships. I have watched and followed alot of stories through the media showing how women are continuously been abused. Ranging from verbal abuse to physical abuse all the way to murder.

If you are lucky enough not to be married to that man yet but he has been abusing you with words or punches. Here is the time to take a walk. Staying in that relationship all in the name of "wanting to get married" would not give you a gold medal. To the married ones, who go through abuse on a daily basis.....having to hear words that make you feel worthless or sad, been hit or even been forced to bed are serious abuse. Save your life before you save that dying marriage. As long as there is life there is hope. Don't wait to be killed.....loads of loved ones still want you alive.

You Need some sort of Advise? Do it here.

    Hi people,
    There are so many of us who have a lot bottled up inside. We can't share it with people because we all know how people can be..... they hear it and then turn you to an object of ridicule.
    Here is the place to do it. Just click on comment and do it annonymously and am sure if i don't have a suggestion then someone else might. A problem shared is a problem half solved. You feel lighter when you don't bottle it up inside.