Single and Searching

A lot of people wonder why people get married when most times the once sweet relationship turns sour. Well, from my own point of view….marriage is only sweet when you are with the right person.Two heads they say is better than one and that is always the truth. Life is boring when alone but you love life when you have people to share it with. Same applies to finding a partner who is there to share the laughs, the smiles, the fun times and also available to cry with you when you really need a shoulder. Click on Read more to continue

You once were in a relationship that didn’t work, He/she cheated. Well, it means that the relationship wasn’t meant to be and God is opening up an opportunity for a better relationship. I always share my little story with people. One day I was sharing my story with my friend, I told her about my experience back in university days; I had a boy friend that I thought I was madly in love with….lol but he lied to me throughout the relationship, he was in a relationship with someone else @ the same time I thought his heart was all with me (That’s all behind me now, no hard feelings…lol) but shortly after that relationship I met my husband…we dated for 7 years and got married 2 and half years ago. So I would say I have known my husband for like 10 years. Then my friend goes like I never knew you ever had an EX…..it made me laugh so hard… She said “ I thought you and your husband have been dating since you were kids with the way you guys behave”. TM thanks for that funny joke.

Once you realise that this is a golden opportunity to find someone that would love you more than you ever expect. Take the step to forgive all your “ex-es” who may have hurt you in the past, let go of whatever may have happened. You would feel so renewed in your spirit and ofcourse talk to God about bringing the perfect person your way.  Start to socialise in the right places, make new friends, hang out with people, don’t be a stuck-up, always wear a smile and don’t be too eager in meeting the right person so you don’t fall in the wrong hands. It is good to be homely but its hard to meet people while you sit @ home so do everything in moderation….socailise and also know when to stay at home.

When you eventually meet the right person, take your time to know him/her in and out. Transparency is key to an effective relationship. Communication is also very important…..if along the line you find some attitude you cannot withstand please do not patch it or manage it….let it go. Go places together, have fun, make memories. The memories always last forever.

If you are still single and loving it….enjoy it, there is no rush. The only rush is if you are interested in having children then the earlier the better. There is no medal given to married people…. Marriage is not a task that has to be accomplished at a set time…Marriage is for two people who can love eachother and would  always want to be with eachother. Everyhting in life is a choice,choose whatever makes you happy. The most important thing is that you are happy.

Enjoy your weekend people.