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Friday, June 15, 2012

LMAO....Must watch!

OMG!!! She just couldn't walk in those heels!


This video will make you laugh and make you feel so sorry for the contestant. But the bottomline is that we must all learn to practice well before an important event. Never assume you would perform well without practicing or studying. Enjoy the video.


Saturday, April 28, 2012

Adoption is not a bad idea



Yesterday, i was chatting with a friend who has been waiting on the Lord for the fruit of the womb. She has waited 5 years and she is in a state of loosing hope. I suggested adoption and she didnt buy the idea because of the mockery some societies attach to it.

Thursday, April 26, 2012

Abused and Alone Continued.....




If you read my previous post on "Abused and Alone". Here is the continuation of the trial of the case of the Akolade Arowolo who stabbed his wife Titilayo Oyakhire Arowolo to death. So sad....I hope justice is served in this case. May her soul continue to RIP and may the Lord be with her daughter. I hope we all learn one or two things from this case

Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Housewife- Really!!! Wake up it's the 21st century plsssss


I wrote a post on Men having jobs and money to cater for the home. I got a couple of e-mails saying "How come it is only men you emphasized on?"....."Are you being a feminist?"... Am sorry if my post came across as been one-sided. Well, men have the larger role. Hence, the reason for the emphasis.

So here is for the ladies. I have heard lame excuses from a few ladies about not working....they say house-keeping is a full time job. So being an house wife has become a job....wow!!! Please don't sit on your lazy butt believing this thing called "Occupation = House wife".

I understand it is alot of work to care for the home but that is where multi-tasking comes in. There are loads of working mothers out there making money. Some people even have maids at home and yet still sit home and say "House-wife". Ladies, try your best to bring something to the table. If it is with whatever you earn you are able to pay for those little things such as phone bills, electricity bills, extra-curricular activities for your kids (Such as registration @ the children's club, swimming lessons etc). There are loads of things you can help the "head of the home" with, this little assistance you provide helps to foster a happy relationship in the home.

Thursday, April 12, 2012

What money and fame will cause....Part 2


Recent updates: The lady says she is not the lady in the bath tub but she is the lady in this picture. Well, she also agreed that she granted PM News an interview and that she also told PM News that she doesn't mind taking controversial photos. Well, i hope she knows her controversial photos won't make her successful...her brains will (my 2 cents)

 

She is a 300-level student of the Nigerian Institute of Journalism, NIJ, Ogba, Lagos, southwest Nigeria, She went nude to break into the big league of the glamorous Nigerian movie industry, known as Nollywood, saying she wants to be famous and rich.

The 21-year-old student, Ms. Enitan Adeshola Okesanya, vowed to enter the industry with a big bang.

“I think there is something missing in the industry and that’s me. I seriously think so. I have got this talent and passion inside me that I want to show to everybody out there. I want the world to see what I have got inside me, the God-given talent inside me, and I know that the media are actually waiting for that young person that will come and blow everybody away. That’s why I believe that they are looking for me,” she told our correspondent last night as both scanned through her bawdy pictures.

What Money will Cause....





Ex-Governor of Kogi and 13th wife

Couple with family members
Former governor of Kogi state Ibrahim Idris is aged 78 years old and his new wife is aged 27 years old.

The bride’s name was given simply as Ramotu. She hails from Okene.  Her parents reside at Lokoja while Ramotu resides in Abuja with one of her elder sisters. She posses an O’Level school leaving certificate. Prior to her meeting the former governor,  she earned a living through hawking of ‘senegalese’ cloths at the Governor's villa.

When i saw this, i was in a state of shock. Surprised that anyone would ever agree to be the 13th wife to a 78 year old "great-granpa". The awful part of it is that the lady is 51 years younger than he is. So when this lady was born, he was already 51........WOW!!!

Monday, March 26, 2012

A chilling letter from the grave from an abused woman

Hi readers, this is a true life story. So sad and chilling.............

[31/10/76 - 27/02/12] 

My mum is crying. I can see  her from here. She has aged since the last time I saw her.

Why does she look so old and why is she so thin? Can someone console her? Can someone make her stop  crying?

I try to get up but I can’t. I try to reach for her, but I’m stuck where  I am. It is very dark in here, and very cold, so very cold. 


What am I doing here?
   Where is everybody?   Where are my children?  I begin to panic, to struggle;  I want to get out of this dark room. 


I can hear Uzo calling. She’s calling my name. Then, I see mum again. And I hear Uzo again. I don’t see my children. Where are my children? I can’t see beyond the walls of this dark and cold room.
 

Uzo calls again. 

She sounds desperate to rouse me from my sleep. I am struggling  to wake but I can’t. I open my eyes and they shut of their own accord. 
I am powerless to keep them from shutting. And I find as soon as I stop struggling,  my sleep becomes sweet repose. Suddenly I don’t want to wake from it just yet. It is peaceful.
I see mum again, and I see Uzo. Uzo keeps calling. She won’t stop calling. She is crying too, just like mum.

Can someone bring Kamsi and Amanda to me? Can someone bring my babies to me? I need to hug them, Kamsi, especially. Is he crying too and calling out for me? 
Does he understand that I  am gone? Kamsi will miss me. 

He is a special child, you know; Kamsiyochukwu - my son and my first child. 

I prayed and longed for his birth. He was the blessing  from above that would seal Kevin’s love for me and give me some footing in his  home and some acceptance from his family. 

 Before Kamsi, I was a nobody in Kevin’s home.
I was born the last of nine children, the baby of the family. I was used to love and affection. I was  everyone’s baby. I grew up knowing that everyone had my back, I grew up knowing  the safety and security of being the baby of the home. You may then understand  my shock when I stepped out of my home and into new territory with the man of my  dreams only to find that I was really not as special as I had been made to  believe. I look back to that day when Kevin took me home to introduce me to my new family. The cold and rude shock of the welcome his brother’s wife gave me  set off an alarm in my head.