Do People Get Married for The Right Reasons

      I started this blog in order to discuss questions that people often ask. I find it awful to see people getting pressured to get married based on the fact that they are growing older. Sometimes you hear things like i had to get married because it was on my bucket list or i have always longed to be in a wedding dress.
      There is even a guy i heard about, he is gay (secretly gay) but got married to an``i have to get married this year kinda babe`` . He got married so that the society would not suspect he is gay and she got married because of the pressure. So tell me, where is this marriage heading? I just cant imagine how she would feel when she finds out, to make situations worst they have a daughter already.
      Marriage is only needed when you have found that one person that makes life alot more meaningful to you. Dont forget it is very important you have spent years with this person getting to know each other better before you both head to the altar.
     Save your self the stress, take your time.....while taking your time search for that one person that would undersatand you and complement you in all things. If your heart thinks you are not ready then you are not. Block your ears to the pressure, take it one step at a time and you will be there in no time.
     Everytime you are taking that step to get married please ask yourself this questions - *Why am i getting married? * Am i getting married for the right reasons? If your answers are not right then its not yet time.


Cheers people.